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Posted by Frosty_Knockerz (Gold Member) (Ranked on Team Spades (Zone) Ladder) on April 24, 2005 at 19:24:26:

In Reply to: Some of my feelings (i am currently on antibiotics so apologize now for rambling) posted by FunTimeBlonde (Platinum) on April 23, 2005 at 22:50:58:

insinuate a reason for this ladder failing is because people didn't value their friendships made here is just total BSSSSSSSS at its best. Many friendships long-lasting have been made in this ladder. People got fed up with a lot of things, them not being their friends they have met here. The friends have never been a problem. Cases on the other hand yes!!!! A big problem as over the years they fail to change any of their policies stating that they cannot for this and that reason. They are supposedly a business, well what business would not change to accomodate the new year, new ideas, not losing old customers???? Then they cry we are making Sr. Staff look bad by putting some of this on them that they don't care what happens to one of their oldest ladders. Well it's plain and simple, THEY DO NOT CARE or they would be making changes to accomodate the needs of the room. This has been reiterated to us over the years in here by ops prior to us, good luck, cases won't budge, etc in any of their desires...didn't quite believe them but they were absolutely correct!!!! Don't belittle us with your excuses, you have nailed this coffin lid shut by being unwilling to implement something that has been asked for for several years now. Not willing to negotiate, not willing to change = demise. Put the blame where the blame lies.

Pils----Thanks but a little too late for trying to resurect the dead hon, we have been instituting all you mention below for the past 2 years, every suggestion you have made we have tried in one form or the other. So when all else failed, went with the people who cared about the ladder, wanted to rejuvinate it, implemented their ideas which were ours also to run into a brick wall as far as changeeeee.

Just know Steph many of us in here value your friendship, like Sue says all that makes you you is what we love best about you :) and all you have done for this ladder over the years too we are thankful for...nothing can take away the memories, frienships made here. Saddens me to think this comment could have been made...doesn't suprise me though.

xoxoxoxo
Debb

: I just read in another forum that one of the reasons this ladder failed is because people didn't value the friendships that were formed here.

: I would just like to publicly state that nothing could be further from the truth. I value each and every friendship that I have made here (even those few that have turned out to not be "friends"). I have met several people here that I consider life long friends & could count on them for support at any time.

: As many of you know, I am quite naive & somewhat vulnerable. Alot of this comes from living what many would call a sheltered life in Idaho. Being a part of this ladder has let me become friends with so many different types of people. It has allowed me to see how differently people are but at same time how much we can all be alike and have the same goals.

: I am probably too sentimental & can't explain why I am this way. I just have a zillion fond memories of people and experiences while playing in ladder room 4. I have shed many tears with friends from this room & I have laughed so hard at times I wish I wore depends.

: People will think I am nuts, but the past 3 weeks have been extremely difficult. First being "fired" from something I truly had a passion for and then watching as the #'s decreased and teams & friends names were purged.

: Thanks to every person who ever played in this ladder for helping form the wonderful memories. Thanks for the support for all the times I had problems with my oldest daughter, when we adopted Brooklyn, when I was dealing with some of the crazy things/people I dealt with here, etc.

: I really shouldn't post when I am tired & sick. My head isn't really clear, but hopefully people will understand what I am trying to say.

: Love all of you & wish nothing but happiness and good health in your life.

:
: Steph

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: P.S. My msn is funtimeblonde@hotmail.com I am not in the zone much but if anyone wants to say hi, feel free to msn me.

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: insinuate a reason for this ladder failing is because people didn't value their friendships made here is just total BSSSSSSSS at its best. Many friendships long-lasting have been made in this ladder. People got fed up with a lot of things, them not being their friends they have met here. The friends have never been a problem. Cases on the other hand yes!!!! A big problem as over the years they fail to change any of their policies stating that they cannot for this and that reason. They are supposedly a business, well what business would not change to accomodate the new year, new ideas, not losing old customers???? Then they cry we are making Sr. Staff look bad by putting some of this on them that they don't care what happens to one of their oldest ladders. Well it's plain and simple, THEY DO NOT CARE or they would be making changes to accomodate the needs of the room. This has been reiterated to us over the years in here by ops prior to us, good luck, cases won't budge, etc in any of their desires...didn't quite believe them but they were absolutely correct!!!! Don't belittle us with your excuses, you have nailed this coffin lid shut by being unwilling to implement something that has been asked for for several years now. Not willing to negotiate, not willing to change = demise. Put the blame where the blame lies. : Pils----Thanks but a little too late for trying to resurect the dead hon, we have been instituting all you mention below for the past 2 years, every suggestion you have made we have tried in one form or the other. So when all else failed, went with the people who cared about the ladder, wanted to rejuvinate it, implemented their ideas which were ours also to run into a brick wall as far as changeeeee. : Just know Steph many of us in here value your friendship, like Sue says all that makes you you is what we love best about you :) and all you have done for this ladder over the years too we are thankful for...nothing can take away the memories, frienships made here. Saddens me to think this comment could have been made...doesn't suprise me though. : xoxoxoxo : Debb : : I just read in another forum that one of the reasons this ladder failed is because people didn't value the friendships that were formed here. : : I would just like to publicly state that nothing could be further from the truth. I value each and every friendship that I have made here (even those few that have turned out to not be "friends"). I have met several people here that I consider life long friends & could count on them for support at any time. : : As many of you know, I am quite naive & somewhat vulnerable. Alot of this comes from living what many would call a sheltered life in Idaho. Being a part of this ladder has let me become friends with so many different types of people. It has allowed me to see how differently people are but at same time how much we can all be alike and have the same goals. : : I am probably too sentimental & can't explain why I am this way. I just have a zillion fond memories of people and experiences while playing in ladder room 4. I have shed many tears with friends from this room & I have laughed so hard at times I wish I wore depends. : : People will think I am nuts, but the past 3 weeks have been extremely difficult. First being "fired" from something I truly had a passion for and then watching as the #'s decreased and teams & friends names were purged. : : Thanks to every person who ever played in this ladder for helping form the wonderful memories. Thanks for the support for all the times I had problems with my oldest daughter, when we adopted Brooklyn, when I was dealing with some of the crazy things/people I dealt with here, etc. : : I really shouldn't post when I am tired & sick. My head isn't really clear, but hopefully people will understand what I am trying to say. : : Love all of you & wish nothing but happiness and good health in your life. : : : : Steph : : : : P.S. My msn is funtimeblonde@hotmail.com I am not in the zone much but if anyone wants to say hi, feel free to msn me.

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